PAST FEW MONTHS IN A NUTSHELL, 2018 LESSONS, GROWTH, TIMING, +FALL/ WINTER FASHION AND MORE....

                                         THE INTRO (CHECKING ON YOU)
This blogpost is well overdue! It should have been Live two days ago but when you read it you will understand why it took this long to publish.
     As i sit here, and type my heart out! There are still so many things i wont be able to say, share, tell or type. Oh 2018! what a year.....Was it great? Could it have been better? What could i have done differently? Are there regrets? Are there any achievements? All of these and more are the things i would love to share in todays post!

But first i want to check on you? How are you feeling? Excited about the new year? Health wise; awesome? Or are you feeling overwhelmed? Get some rest, set some goals and buckle up for 2019. It promises to be an amazing year!!!



            Outfit details
Pink Blazer: Boohoo
Turtle neck: Calvin Klein
Jeans: Rosegal
Sunnies: Rosegal
Booties: Justfab

PHOTO taken West Elms NYC

#BLESSED THE WAY MY LIFE IS SET UP

    How amazing is it to have your life set up just the way you want it to be. Sometimes everything I planned for is what happens eventually,  other times they don’t. I am usually not too mad about stuff that don’t work out because In  the end I know Ild still remain #Blessed.  

    Last night, I couldn’t sleep. I woke this morning thinking that it must have been because I am stressing out about the things I cannot control. Also, because right now I feel like I need to be blessed x100.

LIFE UPDATE; WHY MY BLOG SUFFERED-BIRTH OF MY BUSINESS- REALITY OF WHAT BLOGGING TRULY ENTAILS AND MORE!

     Life is life, and whatever happens we truly have to accept our fate and keep it moving. Have I done that ? Yes. Do I regret it? No. I said this in my last post . The hardest part of blogging is actually having more than a 9-5. It has to do with starting your business and also deciding to live your life and enjoy the journey.

SPARKLE INTO THE NEW YEAR x HOW TO MAKE 2018 YOUR YEAR

Happy New Year my loves, I wish you all a purpose filled year without any sorrow or mourning. This shall be your year of new dawn and havesting. 

I took a much needed break from blogging even instagramming. I honestly was loosing the vibe. I restrategised and finally I was able to come back even stronger. 

MELLOW YELLOW x ON THE ROAD THE SELF REALIZATION

Mellow Yellow or not so Mellow Yellow. Todays post is all about this yellow slip dress, which is the highlight of todays look. I wanted to talk about the journey to "SELF REALIZATION". An important journey that each human being has to embark on to get to their destination in order to fulfil their purpose on the earth. Before we start this discussion lets talk about this gorgeous look.

SUMMERS OUT x HURRICANE HARVEY SCARE

I didn't think I was going to make it, I also didn't think I was going to die. It was the worst of both worlds for me yesterday. I'm sure you are all aware of the current Hurricane Harvey with a faced wth in Texas. But I am safe, so are my family members  and friends. 

NAVY VIBES IN ZANSTYLE CLOTHING

Happy Friday loves, a little weekend outfit post coming your way today. I want to talk to you about my new favorite brand and my vacation which is ending in a few hours. 

In today's post, I've styled this gorgeous shift cold shoulder dress from @zan.style on Instagram and their website is here  

WORK IN STYLE; BUSINESS CASUAL CHIC

Monday's are a drag sometimes, like today I would prefer to be in bed and do nothing, but the hustle must continue. In today's post I've styled a work inspired outfit. 

This outfit is everything that defines businesss casual. I love how well together it looks. As I always say, one piece has to give that extra edge and stand out as well. 

OH NO THERES NOTHING IN MY CLOSET; STRIPES x LAYERS

Happy Thursday readers, it's almost 4th of July, well maybe not quite but I love styling way ahead of time. Here's my favorite outfit this summer. Perfect for the season and I love how versatile this look is. 

Have you been having a hard time finding out which clothing items you want to style? You buy everything but when you look into your closet it seems like there's nothing? . Don't worry how I piece clothing together to make them perfect outfit is one  of the tips Ild be sharing today on the blog. 

ECCENTRIC IN FRILLS x PUFFY LAYERED SLEEVES!!

I'm sorry if I kept you waiting for too long on this one!! My loves, if you are following me on Instagram (@howistyledit) you would already know how much love I got for this outfit. 

In today's post I'm sharing my love for everything over the top ( my layered top and my frill-y jeans) lol... I bet you thought the same when you first saw this picture right ?. Guess what Loves? You can shop this entire look if you continue reading. 

BROWN BLOGGERS BOWL EVENT x IMPORTANCE OF NETWORKING !!

Can we throw it all the way back to last friday night!! I had a wonderful time with these gorgeous ladies. I dont just see them as friends but sisters that i want to grow with.

 Earlier in the year i attended a brunch which was organised by the gorgeous fashion blogger Chime or (_aroundthewaygyrl) on Instagram.  When i got invited to this bowling event i was so excited.  The fact that melanated women could come together and share their blackgirlmagic was amazing, Taking away from the ideology that women compete with each other. Just being able to grow together and build each others brand through networking was important.

Th brunch was one of my first events to attend as a blogger and at that point i didnt understand the power of networking. Lets talk more about this event.

The location is one of things i love. Very jive and had people who just really wanted to have fun, basically came out for the fun. Bowl&Barrels in the City Center Houston was the bowling alley used. The service was awesome  food and drinks were delicious. I also like the fact that unlike other bowling alleys it wasnt over crowded. Everyone had their own space.

This event really enlightened me to the importance of networking. I met a lot of gorgeous ladies that  are my social media friends and we connected and work together or plan on working together.

This event was awesome. I have listed a few important tips about networking and its benefits. Continue reading to view them.

CALL ME MS GRAY IN THE FALL!! SHADES OF GRAY!!

I cannot emphasize my love for the fall season. Having to play around with different outfits styles and making an effort to layer and make it loove stylish and well put together. Ahhhhh!! Life has been given. 

In todays post, im serious guys dont call me Ms Essien, my name is now Mrs is Gray. lol not Just  joking. Can you see this monochromatic perfection in this post. I have come to accept that in styling you dont have to have all the colors right, in fact, i prefer little contrasts here and there.

Ive paired this gray mock neck midi dress with this ankle sock shoe. For the extra chilly days i have thrown on this comfy gray jacket. I love how all the shades of gray work together. 

To be honest, I will be wearing these outfits and styles this fall and these are definitely some of my fall wardrobe staples so you will be seeing my style a lot of midi dresses this season, best said now before it seems like breaking news ... I am too dry ...lol.

I hope you enjoyed reading this post. Also, leave a comment below stating what your fall wardrobe staples are.

Thank you for stopping by today! See more pictures and outfit details below.

METALLICS x SHADES OF GRAY (HOWISTYLEDIT is One)

Hello loves, Happy  almost friday to you all. I promise you its been a very stressful week for me, to the point where i kept procrastinating my blog posts. 

I have good news to share with you all. October is the month that HowIstyledit turned one yay!!. Even though technically i created this blogsite two years ago, proper handwork and effort only started two years ago. In celebration i have this You balloons  and i hope you like them.

In todays,sharing my love for this metallic skirt and gray shades. Lately ive been going back to my old obsessions. Colors like grays, nudes, burgundy and white are my go to during the fall season. I found myself styling gray outfits lately, sorry in advance guys if i suddenly goes all gray in here. 

Ive paired the perfect sweater with this metallic skirt from +boohoo.com  very affordable and gorgeous. I also paired this look with these different shades of gray clutch and shoes. This loo was pretty easy to put together based on the fact that initially i was skeptical about styling metallics. This outfit is just perfect for fall, throw on a coat and you are ready to slay with the perfect layers.

Read what you need to know about blogging from my two years and counting experience. 

BODYCON CHOKER DRESS x BOMBER JACKET; FEW THRIFTHING SECRETS !!

 Ever thought about the perfect Bodycon dress paired with the most gorgeous vintage bomber jackets? thats what todays post is all about.

Ild be sharing three secrets on how i get key fashionable and trendy pieces from thrifting (thrift/charity store).

Opps!! let me check on you all, i hope you had an amazing weekend. Mine was pretty basic just me typically resting, watching Netflix and eating loads of food ... continue reading to see more pictures, outfit details and top secrets on how to successfully thrift great pieces like my bomber jacket.

GOT MY FALL GLOW ON! FEEL BEAUTY PRODUCT REVIEW!!

Happy Fridays lovelies!! I hope you are all excited about the weekend. In today's post I'm sharing my love for these amazing beauty products by @feelbeauty. I got sent two products to review. One is a hair product (Beachy) which is a complete texture mist. The other is a self tanning glow kit (Glowing) which helps enhance and stimulate melanin.

Because I already have enough melanin. lol I have been using his product to even out my skin tone and trust me it actually gives me that extra glow that I need/would be needing this fall/winter season when the sun goes into hiding.

Beachy(hair mist) review;  The hair mist helped with the texture of my low cut natural hair. Especially when I'm on the go and don't feel like wearing my wig, I spray the mist on and move it around with my fingers, after allowing it to air dry my hair looks gorgeous. This mist actually softens the hair which is why I love it.

GLOWING (Self Tanning); I love having that evenly toned skin with that extra glow. This product has got me feeling extremely beautiful inside and out. I showed the process in pictures of how I got the perfect glow using this product. I had a sugar scrub with my homemade sugar and coconut oil scrub , before applying this product. Let's talk about this below!!!

FOR THE LOVE OF NAVY x RUFFLES x COMFORT!!!

Happy Hump Day my lovelies!! I hope everyone's having a great day so far. I personally took today off and ild be spending some time with my family and shopping as well. 

In today's, post i am sharing my love for all things Navy, ruffle and comfort. Lets talk about comfort a little bit. Its all about being free from pain or constraints, which heartbreaking for me to say but truthfully, high heeled shoes bring. 

This look is all about being stylish yet comfortable hence, my flat pair of shoes. If you've been following me on this journey, you would know i have a thing for wearing the color blue particularly Navy blue.

Which brings me to this point where i share my short story about HOW I HAVE RESTYLED ALL THIS PIECES.

During the summer i purchased this ruffle off the shoulder top from +boohoo.com . I also purchased this navy pant in a coord set from +ASOS . What other time but fall to style both pieces. This fall shades of blue are really in and i must remind you that i was totally out of outfit ideas for this look. When i figured out what i wanted to style i reminded myself that sometimes i want to look casual but still be a stunner. I will be sharing how i am able to recycle my clothing in another post.

I also paired this outfit with a red bag, great contrast i think. What are your thoughts? My oversized Celine style glasses from @fxshnjunkestore has also been a winner for me lately. This outfit can be worn casually and as always if you want to switch it up, just put on a pair of high heeled shoes, roll down the ankle and you are good to go.

I hope you enjoyed reading todays post. See more pictures and outfit details below!!! 

Thank you for stopping by today!! xoxo

SUMMER x FALL!!

Happy Monday loves, I hope everyone's starting the new week on a positive note. In today's posts I'm sharing my love for this Ankara two piece by labels by rhallykhan.  This is one of my favorite brands at the moment. I will be doing a made in Nigeria couple of days or week long post. So stay tuned. 

I'm really enjoying the few sunny days I have left. Quite frankly i can't seem to decide if I want to let go of summer but I also I'm so ready for the boot season as I call it.

 This two piece seems like a dress which I love so much. I paired it with my boot and my sling bag. I. Would recommend this outfit for those in very hot cities like mine at the moment, or paired with a trench coat or a jacket it would pass for the  chilly days in your city. This outfit is appropriate for weddings, casual outings and all other events.

  Oh, I also added my choker to this look for that added sauce.. lol. I hope you get inspired to wear Nigerian brands and style your African prints too. 

What are your thoughts about the weather in your city and would you style this outfit? Leave comments below!!  

More pictures and outfit details below; Remain Stylish and Thank you for stopping by!! 

ITS FALL SEASON SO LETS TALK ABOUT KHAKI!!

One of my favorite things to style is a great midi dress but this mock khaki dress by fxshnjunkestore is everything . I love how calm this color is too 

The mock neck design of his dress is gorgeous. I have not  started layering for the fall seasons but I definitely will start posting some layered outfits.  I paired this outfit with my diy sock shoe which I will be discussing in another blog post.  Running off to sleep real quick sorry for the short posts loves, 

I hope you enjoyed reading this post.

METALLIC x DAMASK!!

Hello love, i have been MIA, trust me i am always working on good content. I have come to a point where if its not as great , I just don't want to post it. So bear with me guys!!

 In today's post i have styled this damask tiered or layered dress. I must say is so mini for me but its just the perfect dress for date night/ weddings or even dinners or brunch. I paired this damask dress with my favorite silver sandals. I really should get  a new pair. lol

This outfit was really easy to style, im not much of an accessories person so trust me when i say adding a little bit of bling bling here and there would have made a difference. Also, this dress color falls into the perfect shades for fall which i love so much.

I styled this look last month and only just blogged about it. I have a reason guys?
   
                      Do you ever stare at  picture/an outfit for too long and just never like it?

 Thats exactly what happened to me on this occasion, definitely a love/hate situation. Note to self, never stare to long at you outfit or picture. Still looking for the brand of this dress as i gave the dress out this week so bear with me.

Okay loves, I am literally running off to bed . Please leave your comments in the comment section below. I hope you enjoyed reading this post. Thnak you for stopping by today!!

I BELIEVE I CAN FLY !! PONCHO x BURGUNDY!!

           Hello my gorgeous readers!! With so much going on in my life I can only continue to strive to promote my brand. So happy that you all take your time out to read my posts. Most importantly I hope you get style inspiration! I always say it's not rocket science that's why you've got me and I've got you my lovelies!!

In today's post I'm sharing my first fall outfit if he season. It's pretty easy on the eye and trust me I love the fact that I am wearing one of my favorite fall colors (burgundy).  It's getting sort of chilly in the city of Htown, so I've literally been layering on with this gorgeous plaid poncho.

I've had people ask me is it a blanky or a shawl!! To be honest I got so tired of answering but the bottom mlone is they were feeling the babe!! Lol!!

Boots are one of my things and definitely love comfortable bootiies. This one is one of my favorite but guess what it's borrowed from my sister. I will be doing a post on how both my sisters closets are my shopping malls sometimes.. Hahahah

This burgundy dress is so comfy, if you look closely it's slightly loose. This is because it's a size bigger that it should be but I thought oh well I love this dress and will style it. I promise you the dress is as ribbed as it looks and indeed very thick.

                 My question now is Do you believe you can fly? 

The reason why I titled this post that is because the wind was giving me life during my photoshoot!! I hope you enjoyed reading this post m! Don't forget to share your thoughts on this look below. See more pictures and outfit detials below...

            Also comment on what your favorite FALL COLORS Below !!

Thank you for stopping by today !!